Introducing Robert Rush - Northland Rugby North Zone Referee Education Officer

Rugby has been a big part of my whanau’s life since I was a young fella. Formative years at Kaeo Rugby Club before heading off to Auckland to study. Played the majority of my senior footy in Auckland where I got a great lesson from a provincial ref one afternoon who said to me on the field of play “you know Rushy….. if you only knew half the rules I have forgotten you wouldn’t be such a pain in the ass” now shut up and put the ball in. He was the one who gave me that final push “to put up or shut up”…. Very wise man who is no longer with us.

Love for the game - to me it begins here. You have to really love the game and appreciate what it takes for an athlete to be good at it.

Respect - for the clubs, coaches and whanau who give up so much time for the players. The game is for the players. They gain the most from a game which is officiated fairly and within the rules. As a ref you owe it to the players to do your best, every game.

Giving back to my community - Most refs I know had parents who gave back. They have also coached, been on club committees and continue to donate their time through officiating. It’s one of the most honorable things a referee can do and it is always greatly appreciated. Not to mention the sense of personal satisfaction we get.

Best seat in the house - most referees played rugby at some time. Being a referee keeps you involved. It puts you right back into the action and gives you a part in the game that you’ll never get as a spectator. It’s not the same thrill as playing, but I’d say it is the next best thing.

Physical conditioning - What better way to stay in shape and you get a great view of the game.

Mental conditioning - Refereeing keeps the mind sharp. And with so many laws to understand and apply, your mental focus is a must. The ability to block out distractions and concentrate on the athletes exercises the mind. The mental demands of officiating can be much tougher than the physical demands.

Challenge - Refereeing is a challenge. From passing the exam…to advancing to higher levels…to getting the best assignments…to doing a good job under pressure in a big game. These are all challenges for every referee. And when these goals are met, it creates a great deal of satisfaction.

Friendship - There is a kinship between referees that is hard to find elsewhere. During any game, the players are supported by coaches and supporters. Referees have only each other. This reliance, the working together as a team, creates a unique bond that goes well beyond the game itself. When you become a referee, you’ll know exactly what I mean.

So heed the words of that wise old soul…. PUT UP OR SHUT UP….

Article added: Monday 27 June 2022